![]() There is a neurological explanation as to why some people end up being so negative. Growing beyond their DEFAULTS is not an option. ![]() If you have control over yourself, you have no desire to control others. If you, or someone you know has issues with controlling someone or circumstances in life, or seems to become unhinged about someone else’s life or issues… this is a good indication that an individual is dealing with personal unresolved negativity. In controlling what someone else does… the negative person will feel as if their problems are being solved, & yet - they cannot face their own problems in a healthy way, so they try to fix or change yours. Those that give unsolicited advice, usually do not realize it & this is a major sign that there are unsorted issues in their life… You know, it is much easier to tell everyone else how to live their lives than critique how you should live your own! If someone tries to tell you what you should do with & in your life - if you do not ask for their advice… You can be sure they struggle with negativity. Whatever is going to happen will happen, whether we worry or not. If you choose to keep your focus on what may happen or what could happen - there will always be a level of worry that rules your mind & heart. The way you can overcome this is by practicing mindfulness & choosing to be a person that lives in the present. Worry is a great indicator of the possibility that negativity rules your mind. If the first reaction that occurs looks like worry or fear, this is a n easy way to know if worry is an issue in your life or someone you know. A negative person usually lives by a biased view of the world & people. People who live a negative lifestyle, survive by worrying - they thrive on an unhealthy diet of fear | complemented with complaining | & criticism. This worry mindset is led by the individuals need to feel in control. There is no way to have power in a powerless moment, unless you get some… The best way to do this is let God in! His power can overcome any beast or darkness that seems to overwhelm our lives.īelow you will find 15 signs of negative people – these are warning signs that can help you to become aware of, so that you can avoid living a life filled or even ruled by the beast of negativity.ġ. I know that I do not want to be a person who comes across in a negative way, & I honestly do not think that others desire to live a life led by negativity – or at least I hope not! Somehow it still prevails in many & even permeates so many peoples lives, many of us feed negativity & it grows into an ugly beast that we seem to be powerless against. If you do not deposit Gods word & His truth – you will have nothing to draw from when you need to make a withdrawal in hard times. This list may also help you identify qualities in those that you know, or are in relationship with & help you better understand or handle this common dilemma we all face – can we actually make a choice to be positive, instead of living with a negative outlook in life. ![]() I have compiled a list that may help you do some self-reflecting so that you can grow, as well as make choices that lead you to live a more positive life. I have found that it is easier for some & more difficult for others to recognize their negative ways. In a recent post I covered the effects of negativity.
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